24-04-2024 09:21 AM
24-04-2024 09:21 AM
I hope you can start funeral arrangements soon @Eve7
It really does come with a mixed bag of emotions.
Sending some squishy hugs and love your way 💕💕
25-04-2024 09:31 AM
25-04-2024 09:31 AM
26-04-2024 09:39 AM
26-04-2024 09:39 AM
@Eve7 Thinking of you, hoping you're able to cope 🤞
Hoping also that your daughter-in-law is able to face making the funeral arrangements soon...
Sending much 💛
26-04-2024 12:18 PM
26-04-2024 12:18 PM
I had the most traumatic nightmare last night and I am still shaken by it. Pdoc office rang to say they’d cancelled someone on Monday so I could go in before she goes away. I took the appointment but now I feel bad about taking someone else’s spot.
I wonder if I’ll ever be happy again or if this is it. Today is also the anniversary of losing our baby girl. Can life get much worse?
26-04-2024 01:17 PM
26-04-2024 01:17 PM
Hi @Eve7
I am so sorry to hear about the anniversary, we're here for you ❤️
Maybe the pdoc had a cancellation from the person so don't feel bad about taking the appointment, it will be helpful
I hope the lingering feelings from the nightmare have passed as the day went on
26-04-2024 01:27 PM
26-04-2024 01:27 PM
Thanks @lavenderhaze I am living in a daze and Anzac Day has thrown me out a bit as I keep thinking today is Monday.
26-04-2024 02:07 PM
26-04-2024 02:07 PM
Oh @Eve7 💔 hugs sweetheart.
Oh and, dont feel bad about your Monday pdoc apt. You havent taken anyone else's spot. That spot is for you, and there are none more worthy or in need of it, than you. 😊🌹
26-04-2024 04:33 PM
26-04-2024 04:33 PM
D’s anniversary is on Monday @Emelia8 I’m getting the days mixed up…not sure if I’m Arthur or Martha either.
26-04-2024 04:52 PM
27-04-2024 08:42 AM
27-04-2024 08:42 AM
@Eve7 wrote:I had the most traumatic nightmare last night and I am still shaken by it. Pdoc office rang to say they’d cancelled someone on Monday so I could go in before she goes away. I took the appointment but now I feel bad about taking someone else’s spot.
I wonder if I’ll ever be happy again or if this is it. Today is also the anniversary of losing our baby girl. Can life get much worse?
So sorry to hear, dear @Eve7 😢
That Monday appt is for you - you're in need. You're not taking someone else's spot.
Amd am so sorry about your traumatic anniversary on Monday 💔
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