09-04-2025 09:35 AM
09-04-2025 09:35 AM
So glad it gave you a little lift in your day @Owlunar I hope the rest of your day went better and today is good to you ❤️ I am still at home unwell and I am definitely not going to be back at work this week. I am really disappointed because it is our last week before the holidays and I miss the kids ...but can't be helped.
10-04-2025 08:46 PM
10-04-2025 08:46 PM
Hi @Oaktree
It's really tough to get through special weekends like Easter alone - I know - it's really hard feeling isolated at festive seasons - I've had to sometimes so I hear you and I feel for you.
I will be having lunch with my daughter and son-in-law at their place which is good - normally they drop in with Easter Eggs for me and then that's it. Things were pretty rough between my daughter and me for about a year - both of us were battling with health issues - things have been better recently - which is really great.
I'm sorry you will be alone - the hours can drag - I hope people will be around here during Easter - I'm sure lots of people here will be alone
Sending virtual hugs
Owlunar
Mumma Bear
🐰🐇🦉
10-04-2025 08:55 PM
10-04-2025 09:10 PM
10-04-2025 09:10 PM
Hi @Zoe7
I'm sorry you are feeling off colour - I hope things are improving - I know how much you love your kids and miss them whenever you can't work.
It was really tough for front line workers like yourself during covid - I had my support workers who had to keep working regardless - one of my cousins works in aged care and got covid twice - so really I was okay most of the time - I read a great deal and bought lots of books on-line and thought of it as "My Great Novel Fest".
You were understanding about my aunt's funeral at the time - I appreciated that - I was able to go to my uncle's funeral not long after though now all my uncle's have gone - I was very close to the family in Hobart - I miss them but I am in contact with the youngest one who lives in Canada. Emails are great.
I have a new psychologist - I am not sure how this will work out - my shoulder was painful for it's own reasons and I felt off colour for a few days until I went to the pain clinic today. They gave me something extra for a few days which will help but I really think it was really friendly and accepting there as always and my heart feels lighter
I like to keep a friendly attitude - people love that and it helps
All my best wishes for Easter
Mumma Bear
Owlunar
🐰🐇🦉
10-04-2025 09:17 PM
10-04-2025 09:17 PM
Hey @Shaz51
How are you and poor little kidney battling along - none of your choices about your health sound pleasant
But you are always here and available which is something really special
I wonder about Mr Shaz and hope he's okay at least some of the time - it's hard yards for both of you
Look after yourself - you are worth it - and keep on keeping on - my dear friend
Mumma Bear
Owlunar 🦉
🐰Easter wishes🐇
11-04-2025 08:58 PM
11-04-2025 08:58 PM
Feeling a lot better today but very fatigued @Owlunar2 I went outside into the garden for a bit but was too tired to do much. Think I need a few more days of rest before I tackle anything again. On the plus side, I did a little painting as I could do that sitting down - but much the same - a little at a time then back to the couch to rest with the fur babies.
I really wanted to be at work today but I am glad I wasn't because I would not have lasted for long. I do miss the kids but I really have not been well enough (the attept at gardening proved that).
I know how much your uncle and auntie meant to you Mumma Bear and am grateful you are still in contact with your cousin ❤️
I hope the new psychologist works out for you and the pain meds continue to help.
I have been without pain meds for weeks because of my GP leaving but grateful for my pdoc who gave me scripts this week ....the upside of being unwell, I could see her earlier than planned.
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